labels / by Rex LeBeau

Seriously, who thought of scoliosexual as a word to describe people who are attracted to non-binary folks?  The nice thing about labels is that you only have to use them if you want to.  I've had some trouble finding a term to describe my sexuality since it's changed drastically over the years.  As a genderqueer person, terms like gay or lesbian don't really fit since I'm not male or female.  Gynosexual is the most accurate term I can find, meaning I'm attracted to women without being one myself.  Since almost no one knows what gynosexual means, the term isn't useful and it doesn't really matter anyway.  We don't choose who we fall in love with, regardless of our sexuality labels.